E-Dating #9: Some Dates I Never Mentioned

The problem with this e-dating thing is that occassionally I make the mistake of venturing out of the safety of my little bed-nest to meet strangers. In public. You know what that means, right? Stories of dates I tried to forget about.

Guy #2: A guy with one photo always makes me wary–there’s something about people who don’t have asshole friends with a desire to capture every last Kodak moment that I just don’t trust. We met up for cheeseburgers & mocked not only several tatt’d up bros, but the morbidly obese guy that ordered four double-doubles. (Don’t worry, we did it under our breaths in true Paris Hilton style!) Following that we went directly to the bar where I learned about celebrities he had worked as an assistant for and how terrible their supermodel girlfriends were. I ended the evening wishing I had been out with said celebrity, since he is probably at least the height he claims to be on the internet.

Guy #3: Older, wiser… and slightly weirder than who I thought I was going to be meeting off the internet. What is it about older guys and making out? Maybe I’m miswired but I don’t want to make out for 30 minutes. Fuck, I really don’t even want to be making out for 10 minutes, regardless of your skill level. His consistent mentioning of moving elsewhere and telling me how much I’d like it there too got old with a quickness. Eventually he became annoyed because I keep a pretty busy schedule and generally don’t have time to see someone two to three times a week, and sent me an email saying that Sasha Grey’s role in “The Girlfriend Experience” made him think of me. I don’t know if he realizes how insulting that sort of comparison is, but I didn’t care enough to reply and tell him so. Sorry dude, hope you find a girl looking to relocate and down to be compared to shady porno chicks in the near future!

Guy #4: “Oh hi, I don’t look anything like my photos. Like, at all. Are you embarrassed by how wasted I’m getting? How about uncomfortable with the consistent sexual innuendo I’m dropping? What do you mean you’re leaving our date early? Aren’t my really fucked up teeth getting you randy?” This was an all-over fail dude that I couldn’t bring myself to be a dick to. Mostly out of concern that he had a garrote in his back pocket.

I’m serious, someone just needs to cough up $7,000 for my customized mail-order boyfriend.

  • alancthulhuspawn

    I’m serious. I’m gonna kidnap John Mayer & remove his brain & replace it with an advanced AI program designed only to make you happy. Oh, and I’ll probably embezzle millions from his bank account as well.

  • alancthulhuspawn

    I’m serious. I’m gonna kidnap John Mayer & remove his brain & replace it with an advanced AI program designed only to make you happy. Oh, and I’ll probably embezzle millions from his bank account as well.

  • john

    Did you drop part of the Guy#3 Sasha Grey email reference? Since that movie was out a little over a month ago I guess that was a very recent foray into the internet dating world. I don’t know whether I should apologize for older men everywhere, just feel insecure about being an older guy myself or be happy I’m not looking for a date. Hmmm, none of the above. I can’t apologize for a doofus (especially since they come in all ages), I’ve never been insecure about anything (well…mostly) and as for a date I’ll remain mum.

    Internet dating sites earned over $500 million last year. I think I want to get involved in that. The only other career I know that allows you to be wrong most of the time and still keep your job is being a weatherman.

  • john

    Did you drop part of the Guy#3 Sasha Grey email reference? Since that movie was out a little over a month ago I guess that was a very recent foray into the internet dating world. I don’t know whether I should apologize for older men everywhere, just feel insecure about being an older guy myself or be happy I’m not looking for a date. Hmmm, none of the above. I can’t apologize for a doofus (especially since they come in all ages), I’ve never been insecure about anything (well…mostly) and as for a date I’ll remain mum.

    Internet dating sites earned over $500 million last year. I think I want to get involved in that. The only other career I know that allows you to be wrong most of the time and still keep your job is being a weatherman.

  • john

    You should maybe make it a package deal. Send some of the millions along with the AI John Mayer, it is bound to help with the general happiness factor.

  • john

    You should maybe make it a package deal. Send some of the millions along with the AI John Mayer, it is bound to help with the general happiness factor.

  • Eric

    I was going to make up some lie to comfort you, in the vein of: Oh, it’s just because you live in L.A., but I just don’t have it in me today. Guys are just weird. I know; I’m a guy. Here’s the thing: if the guys you meet are weird, then how weird must be the girls that they meet? Eh? Perhaps I’ve set you on a voyage of self-discovery that will lead to eternal bliss. Failing that, the John Mayer love bot is a good idea.

  • Eric

    I was going to make up some lie to comfort you, in the vein of: Oh, it’s just because you live in L.A., but I just don’t have it in me today. Guys are just weird. I know; I’m a guy. Here’s the thing: if the guys you meet are weird, then how weird must be the girls that they meet? Eh? Perhaps I’ve set you on a voyage of self-discovery that will lead to eternal bliss. Failing that, the John Mayer love bot is a good idea.

  • gary

    heh thanks for reminding me. downloading gfe now.

  • gary

    heh thanks for reminding me. downloading gfe now.

  • http://ickis.com Julene

    I maintain that most of the people that anyone would meet off the internet are weird. However, I refuse to believe most girls would be into the guys above.

  • http://ickis.com Julene

    I maintain that most of the people that anyone would meet off the internet are weird. However, I refuse to believe most girls would be into the guys above.

  • http://ickis.com Julene

    No, the consistent hint dropping about moving with him to NorCal was enough to wipe out any interest that I had once combined with his rapidly developing desire for extremely consistent communication. The Sasha Grey comparison was just insulting.

  • http://ickis.com Julene

    No, the consistent hint dropping about moving with him to NorCal was enough to wipe out any interest that I had once combined with his rapidly developing desire for extremely consistent communication. The Sasha Grey comparison was just insulting.

  • shaan

    This was an all-over fail dude that I couldn’t bring myself to be a dick to. Mostly out of concern that he had a garrote in his back pocket.

    You should’ve been all, “Is that a garrote in your pocket or are you happy to see me?”

  • shaan

    This was an all-over fail dude that I couldn’t bring myself to be a dick to. Mostly out of concern that he had a garrote in his back pocket.

    You should’ve been all, “Is that a garrote in your pocket or are you happy to see me?”

  • K2K

    Great, all my stragetees are fails…now what? How about a date with me and the wife? We won’t be able to make 2-3 dates a week either since we are in ATL…

  • K2K

    Great, all my stragetees are fails…now what? How about a date with me and the wife? We won’t be able to make 2-3 dates a week either since we are in ATL…

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